Compliments, remember just one word. Good job!

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A lot of compliments make everything better.

It cleans your mind. If you praise and consider with a mind of putting yourself in someone else's shoes, happiness will come as your view of life changes positively.

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1. Reasons for Compliments

1) Compliments are a means of enhancing my dignity.

People evaluate people through their appearance and conversation. I think you've probably experienced it. There are people who find it easy to blame the other person, and on the contrary, there are people who sympathize with the other person's attitude and compliment often. Who would you like more?

2) Compliments make whales dance, too.

A fierce and vicious killer whale in the sea is perfectly shown by a trainer in front of an audience in the concert hall. The book explains that it was possible for a trainer to train the killer whale, the scariest predator in the sea, to follow it so well because he trusted and praised the killer whale with his open mind. Praise for the other person has a positive function that makes the worst situation the best happiness.

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2. Compliments and acknowledgment

To give a compliment, you must first recognize (concede). Recognition is the process of accepting oneself or the other person. Recognition is also consideration. So praise and acknowledgment are not one thing, but they are like chopsticks that move together. You can't eat with just one chopstick. You have to move two chopsticks together to eat what you want to eat. If you express a lot of compliments and acknowledgements, positive changes will come quickly inside you.

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3. Basic human psychology

Humans want to be recognized by others.

There is a strong desire to get social approval. Therefore, there is nothing more painful and sad than being ignored by others. People around the world judge by the appearance of long brown hair, so they don't see the personality properly first, and ignore their existence because they don't want to have a relationship. As for them, the more they are treated like that, the more they act strangely because they want to claim their existence this time. It is not necessarily limited to special humans to have these feelings. The reason why women wear accessories such as rings, earrings, and necklaces on their bodies is because they are narcissistic of self-satisfaction, but they want to look better to others. And I want to hear compliments. No one would have accessories if they were on a deserted island. If you don't understand this subtlety of human psychology, you probably won't find many people who are liked by the other person.

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4. How should I compliment you?

1) Find the other person's ridiculously small strengths.

What we say is an expression of our hearts. There are times when you have to compliment the other person even if you don't like it. Observe the other person carefully. Obviously, you can see the advantages of even the smallest things. And compliment the other person with even 0.1% of your heart. It won't be easy at first. But once you've done it, the second and the third are easier.

2) Choose one word that compliments the other person.

① You did a great job.

② Wow, that's amazing?

③ How can you do this so well?

④ You're great, too.

⑤ You're the best.

⑥ I can't help but like you.

There are many other words to compliment.

3) Practice repeatedly. (Ten times, three times)

If you've chosen a compliment for the other person, now practice it. You have to say at least one sentence to wear 10 times. Never, never speak with your heart. You can't speak easily with your mouth. Say it three times, ten times.

4) Practical training

When you meet a coworker or friend who is not usually in a good relationship, try the compliment sentence you practiced to the other person during the conversation.

ⓛ listening to the other person

② Empathize what the other person says: "Really?" "So how did it go?" "Oh, I see."

③ Praise the other person: Say a prepared compliment.

④ Watch the other person's reaction: The other person's reaction is not good from the beginning. In serious cases, you probably have to try this many times. But don't be discouraged or exhausted. Be patient. Then, surely you will have a great relationship.

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5. Expected effect

Our lives constantly run into human relationships. Whether you like the situation based on me or not, you have to meet someone to let you know about me and get evaluated or evaluate your opponent. In order to create a successful relationship under any circumstances, create language habits and attitudes that speak compliments and reverse words. I'm sure you're going to success in your life.